You’re a high-achiever, but wrestle with self-doubt, burnt out from the grind, and weighed down by the hustle of tech’s frontier.
Start with our AI Shadow Work Companion (Valued at $97) to uncover blocks and set boundaries. Includes a Bonus Shadow Work Transformation Kit ($47 value) + chance for personal audit! FREE when you sign up below 👇
🔸Safe somatic prompts for emotional clarity
🔸Personalized exercises to build boundaries
🔸Designed for visionaries and luminaries
When logic alone fails: You’ve tried yoga, meditation, etc., but life’s chaos—suppressed rage, quiet expectations, betrayal, loss—brings you back to the same patterns & reveal deeper shadows.
Chasing empty goals? 💼
You’ve conquered milestones—maybe millions in revenue, a global network, a legacy in motion. But something’s off. You feel that you’re pouring energy into a life that doesn’t light you up? Success feels hollow when relationships or health falter.
HIDING YOUR TRUTH
& doubting your worth? 💔
Wondering if you’re ever good enough, feeling like people don’t value you for who you really are? Your ideas spark, but fear dims them before they soar.
Numb & exhausted, binded by hidden weights 🥱
Relationships drain you. Your body’s dull, weighed by unspoken grief you can’t shake. Stress dulls your skin, saps your spark. You push through with sugar, late nights, alcohol… chasing expectations that aren’t yours—then feel guilty and tired, all the time.
These shadows aren’t flaws. They’re gateways to your transformation.
Tap into Your Power
Why Choose Our Coaching?
An Exclusive System blending shadow work, parts work, body work, and neuroscience for tangible transformation.
Burn the “Healed” Myth 🔥
Rewire “not enough” lies, spot predatory teachings, and reclaim your right to distrust. Illuminate hidden fears—like doubt or shame—buried in your subconscious.
Build Strong Boundaries
Say NO guilt-free with scripts, integrate your exiled parts (perfectionist, critic, people-pleaser, rebel) into your power team instead of enemies that cause self-doubt. Recode limiting beliefs for razor-sharp clarity and unshakable focus.
Ignite Unshakable Power
Shed inherited shame and anchor self-trust with movement and shadow work. Channel your energy into strong boundaries and authentic desires.
This is spiritual armor for a chaotic world.
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What Past Clients Say
Here's why clients enjoy working together!
“There were many tough moments that I felt so depressed that I could no longer carry on, and it was Nicole who helped me out. Just after working with me for a couple of weeks, Nicole has known me better than I do myself…Without the help from Nicole, I could not solve the problems in my subconscious mind and establish the confidence to win… Nicole is not just a coach but a friend. She does care about you and that makes the difference.
Shi Chen
“I really like your style!
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“Enjoyed the session very much!!!
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The Fears Holding You Back
The 4 silent fears keeping you trapped in cycles of suffering:
Ah! The primordial void is the portal to primal aliveness, the place where creation begins. We all emerge from this void, and it’s a portal to primal aliveness, where creation hums. For tech creatives chasing clarity or Asian women numbed by expectations, this void often hides beneath hustle.
We don’t fear the void; we dance with it. We’ll guide you to sit with the emptiness. With the void, we can weave new stories—ones where your worth blooms from being, not proving.
The fear of being engulfed by grief, shame, or rage? It’s real—but it’s just your fear. You’ve powered through 100-hour workweeks, pitched in high-stakes rooms, or silenced expectations that weren’t yours. You’re stronger than the storm.
We don’t push you into the deep end; we guide you through with gentle rituals, step by step. Your pain isn’t a burden but raw material to be transmuted!
With shadow work, we’ll unveil the beliefs—like “I must endure” or “my worth is my work”—rooted in culture or past wounds, letting them soften without breaking you.
When pain transmutes, it’s not just calm you’ll feel; it’s a radiant ease that glows.
Our frameworks help you process emotions—grief, anger, shame—while staying sharp, perfect for visionaries who thrive on clarity.
Your grit and ambition helped you succeed, but your success may also be laced with pain: proving worth under cultural pressures (e.g., “never enough”), numbing stress with food and alcohol. Your fear is that facing shadows—unveiling shame, grief—will soften this edge, leaving you vulnerable or less competitive at work.
You don’t lose your edge; you sharpen it. We help you release the pain-driven fuel (e.g., anger from pleasing others, fear of being “lesser”) and rewire your subconscious.
Your edge becomes sustainable: a clear, vibrant drive that attracts deals, love, and impact, not a jagged force that burns you out.
Here’s how you use your edge post work with us:
⚡Own Your Presence: Your voice commands respect naturally—whether negotiating equity or setting boundaries with a partner—because it’s grounded in clarity, not defensiveness.
⚡Lead with Ease & Grace: Your softness becomes a superpower. Softness is not synonymous with weakness. It takes true strength to have the courage to feel deeply and to express emotions authentically. You radiate warmth and strength.
⚡Create from Joy: Your edge isn’t dulled—it’s polished. Your hustle flows effortlessly, like a frog’s leap, not a forced sprint.
⚡Attract, Don’t Chase: Rewired worth means opportunities find you.
We’ll help you set boundaries with grace so you heal without betrayal.
We guide you to heal without severing ties unless necessary, weaving boundaries with grace so your radiance doesn’t dim.
Through shadow work, we’ll gently uncover the beliefs—like “I owe them my silence” or “change is shame”—etched by family or culture, letting you hold love without losing yourself.
IF YOU’RE EXHAUSTED & NUMB—THIS IS YOUR PROVEN BLUEPRINT TO ALIVENESS
Tap into your power with unshakeable self-worth.
SUCCESS DOES NOT HAVE TO CAGE YOU. SHADOW WORK UNLEASHES YOUR BOLDEST SELF. GET INSPIRED👇
FAQ
Because boundaries are essential in real life and spirituality. You can’t open and surrender without boundaries. You can’t love without boundaries. Or, consequences can be serious (this can be dangerous). Yet, many self help experts and course jump into oneness, openness, and surrender without going into boundaries first, and we think this is misleading. To put it in simpler terms, your soul chose this incarnation for a purpose, but if you don’t have strong boundaries (energetically and physically) your soul’s plan maybe cut short and you may not live out your soul’s intended purpose.
No, it’s coaching using shadow work and dance therapy to spark confidence, not therapy.
If you are experiencing severe trauma or serious mental health issues, our coaching services are not suitable for you; please consult a licensed therapist for professional help.
Look, we get it—you’ve been burned by gurus promising “open your heart” for $10K a pop. We don’t prey on your cultural wounds. We say your ambition and guardedness are gold, not defects, so you shine without chasing some fake ideal. No guilt trips here, just real empowerment. We’re not here to shame you into thinking you’re broken. Our coaching affirms you’re already whole, using somatic transformation to unlock your worth. No fluff, no traps—just results.
Our program is built for busy tech bosses juggling it all. Our program is high-impact, not high-time-suck. No endless homework or “heal forever” BS.
Yup. Our luxe, nuanced coaching (think gold vibes, not generic webinars) helps you own your power.
Let’s be real: you may have wasted thousands on courses that left you feeling “not enough.” We are not offering another course—it’s a premium transformation that ends the cycle. It’s like hiring a personal trainer for your soul. Plus, start with our free email list first to test the vibes—no wallet required.
Shadow work and parts work aren’t your grandma’s therapy session. Shadow work digs into the bits you hide/repress—like guilt or even your ambition—turning them into superpowers, not flaws. Parts work? It’s like hosting a party for all your inner selves (the perfectionist, the people-pleaser) so they stop fighting.
Our program helps build self-worth for men and women of different backgrounds. That said, coming from a Chinese background, I understand the energetic patterns around filial piety, “leftover women” stigma, and the hustle to succeed.
Those “manifest” courses? Can’t say they’re all scams, but many are keeping you hooked on “not there yet.” Our program is a no-BS transformation that affirms you’re whole, not broken. We use different modalities to help you unlock love and clarity, not vague promises.
Chronic stress, unresolved trauma, and emotional dysregulation accelerate biological aging via inflammation, telomere shortening, and epigenetic changes.
Shadow work (integrating repressed emotions) and parts work reduce chronic stress and shame, which elevate cortisol and inflammatory cytokines like IL-6.
By healing childhood and ancestral trauma, you’re likely lowering allostatic load—the cumulative wear of stress on your body. Studies show high allostatic load correlates with faster epigenetic aging (e.g., DNA methylation clocks).
Regular shadow/parts work may slow your biological age, making you functionally younger.
What You'll Gain
Why Affirmations, Diet & Mere Talk Therapy (Sometimes) Fail—And How to Finally Rewire Your Subconscious
Healing begins at the soul level. When you address ancestral patterns and release trapped emotions, your body naturally follows.
Strong boundaries act as emotional protection. Saying no to draining people or situations reduces stress and anxiety—key triggers for emotional eating.
Self-respect influences food choices. When you value your energy, you naturally choose nourishing meals over emotional coping.
People-pleasing often means neglecting your body’s needs—skipping meals, eating in stress, or suppressing emotions (which harms digestion).
Clear boundaries minimize unnecessary drama, helping you process emotions without using food as a crutch.
Chronic fatigue, bloating, or stubborn weight are rarely about willpower—they’re signals of unprocessed emotions, sometimes rooted in ancestral grief.
When you honor your emotions and cultivate self-love, your boundaries and eating habits shift effortlessly. You’ll learn to listen to your body and eat intuitively—this is how I lost 20 pounds, and it’s what I teach my clients.
Stop negotiating your worth. Our framework transforms people-pleasing into strong boundaries, helping you release guilt and protect your energy. Move beyond burnout, own your decisions, and watch as opportunities and respect naturally grow.
You can finally set boundaries by saying no and emanate self-respect. You’ll shift from “human doing” to “human being.”
🤩🤩🤩 BONUS, you’ll stop settling.
Stop sacrificing your joy for external validation. You’ll develop the courage to pursue what truly matters—guided by inner wisdom, not societal expectations.
Chaos flourishes without boundaries. Clear limits create stability—you control what enters your space, building the confidence to face uncertainty with calm.
Turn your trauma into gifts , and deepen your understanding of your authentic desires based on your trauma
Uncover subconscious blocks that sabotage your decision-making, rewiring them to fuel bold tech innovation and unwavering leadership
Through our work, we dismantle hidden blocks, aligning your inner consciousness with tech’s relentless pace, unlocking razor-sharp clarity and vibrant health to drive your mission, fuel bold innovation, and create world-shaping impact.
Hello, I'm LANA!
Your Facilitator & Guide
I burned out chasing a life that wasn’t mine. A near-death car accident ripped my world apart, exposing shadows—doubt, chaos, and inherited pressures—that chained me. I dove into the underworld of my subconscious, slashing limits with shadow work, dance therapy, parts work, plant medicine, somatic therapy, and neuroscience. My clarity was forged in the deep, blending intuitive shadow work with primal alchemy.
Now, I guide professionals, visionaries, creatives to alchemize their depths into love and impact by ditching shame, integrating their shadows and striking with precision and fearless clarity. Through shadow and parts work, movement therapy, and ancestral healing, I’ve helped 500+ high-achievers break free from shame and own their worth.
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