Unlock Your Power with Shadow Work: Coaching for High-Achievers
Join a select group of creatives & visionaries and master your subconscious blocks with ease—no hustle, just flow—for unshakable worth & energy
You’re a high-achiever, but wrestle with self-doubt, cultural expectations, or burnout.
Start with our AI Shadow Work Companion (Valued at $97) to uncover blocks and set boundaries. Includes a Bonus Shadow Work Transformation Kit ($47 value) + chance for personal audit! FREE when you sign up below 👇
🔸Safe somatic prompts for emotional clarity
🔸Personalized exercises to build boundaries
🔸Designed for visionaries and luminaries
🔸Only 50 free spots available this month!
When logic alone fails: You’ve tried yoga, meditation, etc., but life’s chaos—suppressed rage, quiet expectations, betrayal, loss—brings you back to the same patterns & reveal deeper shadows.
Chasing empty goals? 💼
You’ve conquered milestones—maybe millions in revenue, a global network, a legacy in motion. But something’s off. You feel that you’re pouring energy into a life that doesn’t light you up? Success feels hollow when relationships or health falter.
HIDING YOUR TRUTH
& doubting your worth? 💔
Wondering if you’re ever good enough, feeling like people don’t value you for who you really are? Your ideas spark, but fear dims them before they soar.
Numb & exhausted, binded by hidden weights 🥱
Relationships drain you. Your body’s dull, weighed by unspoken grief you can’t shake. Stress dulls your skin, saps your spark. You push through with sugar, late nights, alcohol… chasing expectations that aren’t yours—then feel guilty and tired, all the time.
These shadows aren’t flaws. They’re gateways to your transformation.
Tap into Your Power
Why Choose Our Coaching?
An Exclusive System blending shadow work, parts work, body work, and neuroscience for tangible transformation.
Burn the “Healed” Myth 🔥
Rewire “not enough” lies, spot predatory teachings, and reclaim your right to distrust. Illuminate hidden fears—like doubt or shame—buried in your subconscious.
Build Radiant Boundaries
Say NO guilt-free with scripts, master “Armored Surrender,” integrate your exiled parts (perfectionist, critic, people-pleaser, rebel) into your power team instead of enemies that cause self-doubt. Recode limiting beliefs for razor-sharp clarity and unshakable focus.
Ignite Unshakable Confidence
Shed inherited shame and anchor self-trust with dance therapy and shadow work, shining safely without naivety. Channel your energy into strong boundaries and authentic desires.
This isn’t another “soften” course. It’s spiritual armor for a chaotic world.
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What Past Clients Say
Here's why clients enjoy working together!
“There were many tough moments that I felt so depressed that I could no longer carry on, and it was Nicole who helped me out. Just after working with me for a couple of weeks, Nicole has known me better than I do myself…Without the help from Nicole, I could not solve the problems in my subconscious mind and establish the confidence to win… Nicole is not just a coach but a friend. She does care about you and that makes the difference.
Shi Chen
“I really like your style!
Camille M.
“Enjoyed the session very much!!!
Elaine N.
The Fears Holding You Back
The 4 silent fears keeping you trapped in cycles of suffering:
Ah! The primordial void is the portal to primal aliveness, the place where creation begins. We all emerge from this void, and it’s a portal to primal aliveness, where creation hums. For tech creatives chasing clarity or Asian women numbed by expectations, this void often hides beneath hustle.
In Aether Leap™, we don’t fear the void; we dance with it. Through shadow work, we uncover the beliefs—like “I’m not enough” or “success must hurt”. With somatic flow, we release the heaviness trapped in your body, letting emotions spark freely, not numb. And with subconscious reprogramming, we weave new stories—ones where your worth blooms from being, not proving.
🌑 Embrace the Void as Your Spark: We’ll guide you to sit with emptiness, not run from it.
🌟 Root Your Worth in Essence: Let go of patriarchal pressures or endless achieving. Your radiance shines when you simply are.
The fear of being engulfed by grief, shame, or rage? It’s real—but it’s just your fear. You’ve powered through 100-hour workweeks, pitched in high-stakes rooms, or silenced expectations that weren’t yours. You’re stronger than the storm. In Aether Leap™, we don’t push you into the deep end; we guide you through with gentle rituals, step by step. For professionals and creatives numbed by hustle or Asian women carrying patriarchal weights, your pain isn’t a burden but raw material to be transmuted!
With shadow work, we’ll unveil the beliefs—like “I must endure” or “my worth is my work”—rooted in culture or past wounds, letting them soften without breaking you. Somatic flow moves the heaviness trapped in your shoulders or chest, using dances to release what words can’t touch. And subconscious reprogramming rewires your inner story, so peace isn’t fleeting—it’s your new pulse. When pain transmutes, it’s not just calm you’ll feel; it’s a radiant ease that glows.
🌑 Flow Through Pain Without Losing Your Edge: Our frameworks help you process emotions—grief, anger, shame—while staying sharp, perfect for visionaries who thrive on clarity.
🌟 Build Your Emotional Anchor: Rituals steady you against overwhelm, so you radiate worth
Your grit and ambition helped you succeed, but your success may also be laced with pain: proving worth under cultural pressures (e.g., “never enough” in Asian households), numbing stress with food and alcohol, or having to mimick “male” hustle to defy patriarchy. Your fear is that facing shadows—unveiling shame, grief, or suppressed femininity—will soften this edge, leaving you vulnerable or less competitive at work.
With Aether Leap™, you don’t lose your edge; you sharpen it. Through shadow work and somatic flow, we release the pain-driven fuel (e.g., anger from pleasing others, fear of being “lesser”) and rewire your subconscious.
Your edge becomes sustainable: a clear, vibrant drive that attracts deals, love, and impact, not a jagged force that burns you out.
Here’s how you use your edge post-shadow work:
⚡Own Your Presence: Your voice commands respect naturally—whether negotiating equity or setting boundaries with a partner—because it’s grounded in clarity, not defensiveness.
⚡Lead with Ease & Grace: Your softness becomes a superpower. Softness is not synonymous with weakness. It takes true strength to have the courage to feel deeply and to express emotions authentically. You radiate warmth and strength, pitching with a smile that closes $100K deals.
⚡Create from Joy: Your edge isn’t dulled—it’s polished. Your hustle flows effortlessly, like a frog’s leap, not a forced sprint.
⚡Attract, Don’t Chase: Rewired worth means opportunities find you.
Honoring your lineage doesn’t mean repeating their pain. It’s not betrayal to choose your spark. We’ll help you set boundaries with grace so you heal without betrayal.
In Aether Leap™, we guide you to heal without severing ties unless necessary, weaving boundaries with grace so your radiance doesn’t dim.
Through shadow work, we’ll gently uncover the beliefs—like “I owe them my silence” or “change is shame”—etched by family or culture, letting you hold love without losing yourself. Somatic flow releases the tension knotted in your body from years of pleasing, using fluid, frog-like movements to spark ease where guilt once lived. And subconscious reprogramming reshapes your story, so duty becomes empowerment, not a chain. You’ll set limits that honor both your lineage and your light.
🌑 Release Guilt Without Losing Love: Our tools help you navigate family expectations, so you heal with clarity, not conflict—perfect for visionaries rewriting their path.
🌟 Turn Duty into Power: Transform cultural ties into strength, setting boundaries that spark generational healing.
IF YOU’RE EXHAUSTED & NUMB—THIS IS YOUR PROVEN BLUEPRINT TO ALIVENESS
Tap into your power with unshakeable self-worth.
SUCCESS DOES NOT HAVE TO CAGE YOU. SHADOW WORK UNLEASHES YOUR BOLDEST SELF. GET INSPIRED👇
FAQ
No, it’s coaching using shadow work and dance therapy to spark confidence, not therapy.
If you are experiencing severe trauma or serious mental health issues, our coaching services are not suitable for you; please consult a licensed therapist for professional help.
Look, we get it—you’ve been burned by gurus promising “open your heart” for $10K a pop. We are different. Unlike “gurus” shaming you into “not being feminine enough” (yawn), we don’t prey on your cultural wounds. We say your ambition and guardedness are gold, not defects, so you shine without chasing some fake ideal. No guilt trips here, just real empowerment. We’re not here to shame you into thinking you’re broken. Our 6-month self-acceptance coaching affirms you’re already a freakin’ gem 💎, using somatic transformation to unlock your radiance, not upsell you forever. No fluff, no traps—just results.
Our program is built for busy tech bosses and ambitious queens juggling it all. Our empowerment coaching is high-impact, not high-time-suck, with 2-3 hours a week of somatic rituals and 1:1 calls. No endless homework or “heal forever” BS. In 6 months, you’re done—walking away with clarity and impact. Your schedule’s crazy, not your transformation.
Damn straight it will. Aether Leap™ is tailored empowerment for Asian men and women, weaving in your cultural reality without shaming you for ambition. Our luxe, nuanced coaching (think gold vibes, not generic webinars) helps you own your power while honoring your roots.
Let’s be real: you’ve wasted thousands on courses that left you feeling “not enough.” Aether Leap™ isn’t a course—it’s a premium, 6-month transformation that ends the cycle. With personalized coaching, somatic flow, and a clear endpoint, it’s like hiring a personal trainer for your soul. Our clients see ROI in love, clarity, and confidence. Plus, start with our free somatic ritual to test the vibes—no wallet required.
Shadow work and parts work aren’t your grandma’s therapy session. Shadow work digs into the bits you hide/repress—like guilt or even your ambition—turning them into superpowers, not flaws. Parts work? It’s like hosting a party for all your inner selves (the perfectionist, the people-pleaser) so they stop fighting. Our shadow work coaching integrates these through somatic flow, not endless talking, for faster breakthroughs. It’s practical, badass.
Our program helps build self-worth for men and women. That said, coming from a Chinese background, I understand the energetic patterns around filial piety, “leftover women” stigma, and the hustle to succeed.
Unlike “gurus” shaming you into “not being feminine enough” (yawn), we don’t prey on your cultural wounds. We say your ambition and guardedness are gold, not defects. Our somatic transformation flips patriarchal BS, so you shine without chasing some fake ideal. No guilt trips here, just real empowerment.
Those “manifest” courses? Can’t say they’re all scams, but many are keeping you hooked on “not there yet.” Our program is a 6-month, no-BS transformation that affirms you’re whole, not broken. We use shadow work, parts work, and dance to unlock love and clarity, not vague promises. Try our free somatic ritual to see the difference.
Chronic stress, unresolved trauma, and emotional dysregulation accelerate biological aging via inflammation, telomere shortening, and epigenetic changes.
Shadow work (integrating repressed emotions) and parts work reduce chronic stress and shame, which elevate cortisol and inflammatory cytokines like IL-6.
By healing childhood and ancestral trauma, you’re likely lowering allostatic load—the cumulative wear of stress on your body. Studies show high allostatic load correlates with faster epigenetic aging (e.g., DNA methylation clocks).
Regular shadow/parts work may slow your biological clock, making you functionally younger. Lower cortisol preserves collagen, potentially slowing graying.
Because boundaries are essential in real life and spirituality. You can’t open and surrender without boundaries. You can’t love without boundaries. Or, consequences can be serious (this can be dangerous). Yet, many self help experts and course jump into oneness, openness, and surrender without going into boundaries first, and we think this is misleading. To put it in simpler terms, your soul chose this incarnation for a purpose, but if you don’t have strong boundaries (energetically and physically) your soul’s plan maybe cut short and you may not live out your soul’s intended purpose.
What You'll Gain
Why Affirmations, Diet & Mere Talk Therapy (Sometimes) Fail—And How to Finally Rewire Your Subconscious
Strong boundaries = emotional armor 🛡️. When you say NO to draining people/tasks, you reduce stress/anxiety—key triggers for binge-eating or grabbing that 3rd cookie 🍪.
Self-respect spills into food choices 🥗. Protecting your energy = valuing yourself enough to eat nourishing meals, not emotional garbage.
Psychosomatic link? Stress floods cortisol 🧪→ cravings for sugar/fat (hello, survival mode). Weak boundaries keep cortisol high → you’re literally fighting biology.
People-pleasers eat guilt 😣. Saying “yes” to others often means saying “no” to your body’s needs—skipping meals, eating rushed, or swallowing resentment (which wrecks digestion).
Your gut is your second brain 🧠➔🍑. Chronic stress (from poor boundaries) = inflammation, bloating, messed-up hunger cues. Fix the mind, body follows.
Clear boundaries = less drama 🎭→ fewer “I hate my life” pints of ice cream. You handle emotions without using food as a therapist.
Saying “no” to others = saying “HELL YES” to your health 💥. It’s not selfish—it’s science.
Boundaries guard your non-negotiables (sleep, meals, quiet time) → your body trusts you → fewer “emergency” fast-food bailouts.
We believe healing happens at the level of the “soul.” Your body heals when you heal your ancestral patterns and emotional body.
Chronic fatigue? Bloating? Weight that won’t budge? These aren’t “laziness”—they’re trapped emotions, some stemming from ancestral grief. Clients reset metabolisms by releasing generational shame stored in their cells (no diets required).
🌟🌟🌟 When you honor your emotions and learn to love yourself, you will understand your boundaries and your diet automatically change because you learn to listen to your body and eat intuitively – and we can teach you how to do just that (I lost 20 pounds doing that)!
Stop negotiating your worth. Our framework rewires people-pleasing into boundary command—so you slay guilt and protect your energy like the VIP you are. Ditch burnout, own your yeses, and watch opportunities (and respect) multiply.
Stop translating “good child” into “human doormat.”
Filial piety ≠ self-erasure. You can finally set boundaries by saying no and emanate self-respect. You’ll shift from “human doing” to “human being.”
🤩🤩🤩 BONUS, you’ll stop settling.
Stop trading your joy for “prestige.” You’ll gain courage to pursue desires that terrify your inner “tiger child,” guided by nervous system safety, not societal scripts.
Chaos thrives where boundaries die 🌪️. Strong boundaries = a fortress 🏰. You decide what/who gets in → creates psychological safety to handle uncertainty without panic.
Boundaries protect your “future self” ⏳👑. Saying “no” to today’s chaos-creators = saying “yes” to tomorrow’s energy/stability to cook, move, thrive.
Uncertainty hates routines 🕰️. Boundaries guard your non-negotiables (sleep, meals, quiet time) → your body trusts you → fewer “emergency” fast-food bailouts.
Safety isn’t luck—it’s design 🛠️. Strong boundaries = you’re the CEO of your life, not a hostage to external chaos.
Your ancestors survived famine. You’re here to thrive in famine. Financial anxiety isn’t greed—it’s a 500-year-old survival code screaming, “Stockpile! Sacrifice! Never relax!” Forgive generational poverty coding through shadow work, rewire your body to feel safe to receive from the universe.
🧧🧧🧧 When you shed your “survival mode” coding, your body believes you’re worthy, money stops feeling like betrayal.
🎁🎁🎁 Turn your trauma into gifts , and deepen your understanding of your authentic desires based on your trauma
Weak boundaries = emotional earthquakes 😰. Letting toxic energy/opinions flood your space? That’s literally hijacking your nervous system → stress-eating, sleepless nights, survival-mode decisions.
Psychosomatic hack: Stress = cortisol = cravings 🧠🍟. Boundaries keep cortisol spikes in check → you’re not raiding the pantry when the world feels unstable.
Safety = control over your inputs 🎛️. Boundaries filter out noise (drama, demands, doomscrolling) → your mind stays clear enough to meal prep 🥑, not melt down.
Chronic stress, unresolved trauma, and emotional dysregulation accelerate biological aging via inflammation, telomere shortening, and epigenetic changes.
Shadow work (integrating repressed emotions) and parts work reduce chronic stress and shame, which elevate cortisol and inflammatory cytokines like IL-6.
By healing childhood and ancestral trauma, you’re likely lowering allostatic load—the cumulative wear of stress on your body. Studies show high allostatic load correlates with faster epigenetic aging (e.g., DNA methylation clocks).
Regular shadow/parts work may slow your biological clock, making you functionally younger.
Hello, I'm LANA!
Your Facilitator & Guide
I grew up as the “perfect” daughter—chasing accolades to silence an inner void. I numbed my pain with food, fleed soul-draining jobs, and connected to those who dimmed my spark.
To heal, I’ve woven shadow work to unfurl my hidden depths, somatic dance to spark my body’s trapped light & free my body’s stored grief, and ancestral healing to alchemize my lineage’s wounds for over a decade. Now, I guide creatives and professionals to shed silent pressures, awaken unshakable radiance, unlock their radiance, and attract with ease—no force needed.
Your shadows aren’t chains—they’re the spark of your Aether Leap™.
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